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Thursday
Sep022010

An adventure?

A certain someone told me just this morning that there is bravery and charm in being spontaneous and climbing in the car for an adventure (and bringing the passports in case we veer off into Canada).

While that may be true, I admit to being somewhat disconbobulated at that thought of not only not knowing where I'm going, but if I'm going!

So here's my plan...

I have no plan.

Seriously.

But I do have poetry...

An ode to the unprepared:

Mayhem, chaos, self preservation...

Traveling without reservations...

Spontaneous makes my butt cheeks clench...

But it makes the Old Goat's heart content...

The End!

What kind of traveler are you? Reservations? Or a full tank of gas and some clean underwear?

AG out!

Wednesday
Dec232009

Wordless Wednesday Sing-along!

"All I want for Christmas is my two front teeth..."

A surprise Christmas present from the reconstructive dentist... Thank you, Dr. C! Thank you so much!

As that's about as wordless as I can be under the circumstances...

AG out!

Monday
Nov302009

Next steps


(the other side of her face!)

K3 made significant progress over the long weekend. She is now the restless patient and the patient that wants help but doesn't want too much help. And the patient that wants to see her friends but doesn't want people to see her like this.

Ahh... progress!

She has also moved on to soft foods. Stuffing, mashed potatoes and gravy are all good. Baby food and drinkable yogurt continue to be tasty. Anything whirled in the blender rocks!

Finally, we went back to the surgeon the day before Thanksgiving for removal of some stitches and an evaluation. Let me just say that I think Dr. J is awesome and he's exactly the guy I want putting her mouth back together. Here are the next steps...

Off to the reconstructive dentist for an impression of her upper mouth.

1st implant in her upper gums will be in December. We don't know how many implants until he gets the impression done by her dentist.

In that same December appointment, he will pull all four of her wisdom teeth. After extractions, he will harvest bone from the wisdom teeth sockets on one side of her mouth and do another bone graft in the front of her lower jaw. The current bone graft didn't maintain it's height (not unexpected given the break) and needs shored up. If it needs one more graft, he will harvest from her other wisdom sockets in January.

At that, he said it will still be a couple more months before the jaw stabilizes enough for lower implants. During that time, we'll be watching the last tooth that's "iffy" to see if she gets to keep it. 

I'm not looking forward to the December appt. Her whole mouth will be impacted and uggg... I can't even imagine.

I do want to thank everyone again for their kind thoughts and emails and cards. K3 totally appreciates it!

More updates to come...

And now... back to work for me. TOG is staying home with K3 this week.

Wednesday
Nov252009

Eye am thankful...

Sorry I didn't update yesterday. I think we were all just exhausted.

First, K3... She continues to be a good sport about everything right on down the line: all the meds, the lip cleaning and dressing (every couple hours), the liquid foods and the hated mouth rinses. If you have to take care of someone, you want it to be an awesome patient like K3.

Ironically, this picture represents a "black eye" that has crept up on us the last couple days. It was not there earlier this week. K3 is kind of tickled by it's emergence! It makes her feel tough!

New to her diet is puree foods in the blender, which bodes well for Thanksgiving dinner tomorrow. She had pulverized homemade chicken soup last night and was thrilled!

Today its back to the surgeon for an evaluation of her bone graft. We're very hopeful that its successful. The only thing we did not do this week was brush the screws holding the graft in place. We tried but K3 just cannot get her mouth open far enough. So we've relied on the antiseptic rinses and I hope we've done okay.

Thankfulness comes easy to us this year. K3's accident puts many things in perspective.

I'm grateful that the accident wasn't worse.

I'm grateful that the bus driver gave her his coat and held his umbrella over her while they waited for the ambulance.

I'm thankful for the wonderful paramedics, doctors and nurses that have cared for her in this process.

I'm thankful to the friends and family that have been so good to us; the cards, phone calls and emails... even the door to door turkey delivery!!

I'm thankful for my bloggy friends, my blisters... they've been a ray of sunshine everytime I've sat down at the computer while K3 naps. You ladies are awesome, funny and genuine! I can't thank you enough!

I'm thankful that I get to sit down with my family tomorrow, that we'll all be together, that we're all okay.

I'm thankful for K1, who dropped everything and ran to the hospital that morning to be with K3. She left so fast she forgot to bring a burp rag for Ben!

I'm thankful for K2 who has been there at the ER, the surgery and the at-home nursing. All while balancing a full load of credits and a nursing job.

I'm thankful for TOG (The Old Goat) who lived upstairs with his Swine Flu for 4 days while K3 stayed on the couch. I know he wanted to see her, but he did the right thing staying away and it was hard on him.

I'm thankful to my dad who calls every day to check on her.

Hold your loved ones close tomorrow.

Hugs,

AG